How to Become a Good Parent

Every parent desires to instill all the good habits and manners in his child, but the burdened life style of the parents these days makes this task quite difficult. They try their best, but mostly it ends up in losing temper and scolding the child for his mistakes which are his right to do.

However; one need not worry so much about it as good parenting happens in real time basis and the actions and reactions shared between you and the child in the few possible moments does the whole trick. So, it’s not about running around the child every time, but teaching the best things to him and showing your best as well when he is around.

The blunder committed by many parents while growing up a child is making comparison with other children and labeling their child to be less active or creative or confident than others. One must understand that every child is different and grows up showing different behavior. So, instead of discouraging the child by saying such things in front of him, one should talk to him calmly and encourage following the path shown to become better.

We expect the children to do everything in right manner however; we sometimes ourselves teach children to tell lie by showing such behavior in front of them. Sometimes for fun only, even if we do that, the child starts copying the same thing. So, you need to walk the talk and follow the rules sincerely which you teach the child.

One should never lose one’s temper when the child makes mistakes, but understand that’s his age to do so and he would learn better by making mistakes in life. Instead, one should make the child understand in a cool manner which will make him respect and love you more.

Apart from this, you should give some space to the child to learn on his own than hovering around him every time.

K. Marquez